Years ago when we took a family trip on a cruise line every time we stepped into an elevator we were greeted with a rug embroidered with the day of the week. I echo my blog friend Maggie about having trouble knowing what day it is at the moment. I could use a set of those rugs to use in my house!
While the world is doing a reboot, to use computer terms, we are in that time illustrated on the Mac by a little whirling circle. Wait. Wait. Wait. And there isn’t even a helpful indicator that the reboot is 78% or whatever done. Nor is there a note that the process will be over in 4 hours and 6 minutes as my computer lets me know.
We are all in a period of unknowing. It did finally sink in to my psyche that there won’t be a quick return to normal. When I know how long updating my computer takes, I can schedule it accordingly. This virus gives us no such option. It’s here. We’re here. We get to deal with it.
Years ago I spent many hours in “these rooms,” the code phrase for recovery groups. They are big on slogans, most of which used to drive me nuts. “I am too sophisticated for such cliches” seemed to be my orientation. Mea culpa! The phrases that sustain me the most at the moment come from those meetings. “Just for today.” “One day at a time.” “This too shall pass.”
And as for attacks on our leader, I understand them. I voted for a different leader too. But to quote the old line, “you gotta dance with the one that brung you.” He’s who we have. May we at least stop looking to him for leadership. Harry Truman, President after Roosevelt, had a sign on his desk “The Buck Stops Here.” That sign is nowhere in sight at the moment, but seemingly is being passing around as if we were all playing “Hot Potato.” We aren’t. This isn’t a blame game. We really are all in this together. One day at a time.
Never mind what day it is, I sometimes wonder what year, or even what century!
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Feeling a bit like 1918
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For sure.
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No kidding.
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Yes! To all of this. Especially, what day it is.
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My wife still has to go to work, so I note the days by whether or not she is out of the house. But that has been the same for me ever since I retired, and nothing new.
My main change has been taking each day as it comes, with no forward planning. If I wake up without a high temperature or cough, then it’s a good day. I have stopped worrying about next week.
Best wishes, and stay safe.
Pete.
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I agree, Pete
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Will she have to work throughout? Is she getting combat pay as some cashiers are here.
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No extra pay, but there is some talk she might be sent home soon, as she is Diabetic, so at high risk.
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That would be a relief.
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A lot of people are feeling disorientated at the moment, Elizabeth. I am still working so I know what day it is and the boys are still doing school work. We are all doing it from home rather than other places, that is the only difference for us right now. My parents live here so we still have company and some fun together, thank goodness.
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I am glad that you can work at home now. It must feel reassuring to have the boys with you.
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I like your description of how we are in limbo, not knowing, just like the little wheel spinning on our computer screen. We’re all in this together. Excellent post, Elizabeth. I need those day of the week rugs, or at least day of the week underwear. 😅
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I always wanted those!
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😀
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Funny how all the days are long and at the same time running together. We are all learning new ways to connect while remaining positive. And thankful for everyday of good health that we have.
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New ways to connect are what keeps us sane, Susanne
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Yes. For now there is the need for physical distancing. But we can continue to connect in many other ways.
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Absolutely, and we need to support each other
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We sure realize how much we value contact when it is cut off.
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Indeed…I have scheduled video calls with friends to stay in touch!
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I talk on the phone on a schedule too.
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Excellent! Way to survive…
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Thank goodness.
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The days do seem especially long for sure.
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Well said, Elizabeth….yes we are all in limbo, so to speak.
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All over the world at once. Very astonishing really.
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Absolutely
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I am in much agreement with your feelings.
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Thanks.
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Linda Hill inspired these WDIIA Posts for me. I like the idea of the rugs, anything would help! These are certainly trying times.
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Absolutely.
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These sure are challenging and unprecedented times.
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At least for the ones living today.
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My mother used to like to say “inch by inch, life’s a cinch!”
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Great. I am borrowing that one.
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