I have a dental checkup every six months. The hygienist cleans my teeth, the dentist examines my teeth and I get back on track with my home dental care. I know I should floss. Who doesn’t know they should floss? But I get forgetful and eventually realize I am about to see the dentist and furiously try to make up for lost time. Which, of course, is impossible. Fortunately, my dental team never shames me, just reminds me of good practice and says they will see me in six months.
Lent is like that for me. I know I should focus on God, pray, help the poor and focus less on me,me,me. I should quit seeing people with opposing political views and my President through hate-filled eyes. I should take time to be quiet and really appreciate my life. I should remember that that woman on the street could be me without the gift of medical care I have received. But I forget. I get preoccupied. I get angry and demonize the opposition.
Fortunately, once a year the Church has 40 days set aside to remember these things. God isn’t interested in shaming me any more than my dentist is. God just wants me to remember good practices. Lent is a yearly opportunity to do just that and I am grateful.
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That’s a really good analogy for lent!
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I admire you for taking this thoughtful approach. Although I don’t necessarily agree with some of your political leanings, many of your posts and comments have still made me think about my own feelings towards others in surprising ways. Today, you’ve made me think about how I view “the opposition”. I know that most people really are good and only want what’s best for this country and their families. I agree that “Demonizing” people who think differently than me is not constructive. I will join you in being thankful and try harder to look for the best in people as the discussion continues.
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I am grateful that we meet on the internet without malice or name calling. I appreciate opposing views and have been really having to remember that .
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It sounds like it creates a structure that really helps you focus on love and compassion, including for yourself. That’s great.
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Yes it does.
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That’s wonderful.
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That’s a really good analogy for lent! I love that!
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Thanks.
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We are all human, Elizabeth. That is why there are periods during the year like Lent when we can take stock, soul search and replenish our faith and love.
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We all do need them. I’m grateful that it spelled out for me in my faith.
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So well said, and the dentist had toothbrushes in the bathroom!!
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Too perfect!
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Such thought-provoking post Elizabeth. Sometimes, yes, we always forget but being aware of our shortcomings is the next big step to having a peaceful life.
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I agree.
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