Reading about the possibility that Donald Trump would refuse to leave the White House(on the right) to allow President-Elect Joe Biden to move in, I thought back to 1955 and the house on the left. Our next door neighbor’s aunt had died and left him her house. It was an enormous place, filled to the brim with her hoards including ceiling high piles of old newspapers, and the neighbor wanted nothing to do with the place. Meanwhile with my mother expecting her fourth child and us living in a small two bedroom house, my parents were willing to buy the place, hoards and all. He only had two stipulations. He didn’t want to have to go in the house himself. And we had to continue to let Norman live there.
Norman, an odd man in his late 30’s, occupied a bedroom on the third floor. Perhaps he was the last resident of the boarding house that our neighbor’s aunt ran. He was a small man perpetually smelling of cigarette smoke. My desperate parents took up the offer and we acquired a new house and a new boarder. He paid no rent and made his own meals.
Norman gave me the creeps, though I couldn’t have told you why. He regularly baby sat us, apparently having earned my parents’ undeserved trust. One evening as we sat on the sofa watching television he bent over me and started kissing me. No fool I, even at seven, I pushed him away in disgust. Then I told my mother. Norman left. The house was ours for the first time.
Let’s hope it takes much less than that appalling scene for Trump to move out!
LOL on the upcoming White House boarder!
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Well done you at 7…
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That sounds creepy. I think you dodged a far more serious situation there, Elizabeth.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I am amazed that my parents were so trusting. They were a bit overwhelmed trying to clear the house.
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Did you discover where Dad buried the body? Perhaps there’s space for another!
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I love the thought.
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You could not make up a story like that, Elizabeth. No child should ever have to experience something like that. So glad Norman ‘disappeared’ and you were okay.
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Funnily enough I saw him years later working in the cafeteria at my graduate school. I did not say hello.
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Good for you.
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Good for you for recognizing a creep and telling your parents.
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I am amazed that I pushed him off. It was kind of instinctive.
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Some things are instinctive.
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Yes. It seems to have been true that evening.
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Oh Elizabeth, that is a nasty experience to go through in childhood. I’m so glad you took the action you did!
I have had to counsel far too many adults & teens whose childhood innocence was stolen by adult perpetrators…far too many.
Bless you,
Jennifer
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It was an empowering moment for sure. Quite different from many others.
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Definitely an unusual course of action for one so young with an authority figure, such as an adult babysitter.
But one that I truly applaud Elizabeth! As knowing predatory behavioral patterns it would have escalated.
Your actions prevented further abuse, not only for yourself but for your siblings too.
And I’m so glad your parents listened to you & took their own course of action to protect you all!
Do you know if law inforcement was brought in?
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No. I think they just got him out of the house.
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I’m glad you were all protected Elizabeth.
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Speaking of moving from the White House, Trump belongs in a house filled with prison cells (otherwise known as “The “Big House”).
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Good plan.
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He bent over and started what…..? I’m so sorry you experienced that!
I don’t understand how any man looks at a child in that way. Has there ever been any in-depth studies on the causes of pedophilia? It blows my mind every time I hear an incident. Grown men started hitting on me by about 6th grade and that’s considering that I was late to puberty.
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Thank you. I didn’t realize at the time the seriousness of the incident. I just hated his smelly clothes and pushed him off.
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Sometimes it’s the subconscious that keeps us safe! I’m glad you reported him as well. I know a lot of adults who never told their parents and it eats them alive.
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Wow! That is quite the story. That’s going to sit with me for a while.
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I hadn’t shared that before. It is interesting to see how it affects people. I think after Norman was gone I didn’t think about him much.
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Creepy for sure. Glad he was finally kicked out. I feel so on both counts.
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Thanks. I had never spoken of this before I wrote about it. I am encouraged by the support I received.
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What a creep! We should have put your parents on the case in Washington, D.C.
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Great idea.
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That is a creepy story. Wasn’t Norman also the owner of the Bates Hotel?
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I had not thought of that. Even more creepy.
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Definitely more creepy. I’m sorry I put that thought into your head.
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What a horrible thing to have happened, Elizabeth. I am so sorry. I’m glad you parents listened to you.
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