
A certain amnesia creeps in around puppies, rather like the amnesia that sneaks up before the birth pains of the second labor. Oh yeah. Been here before. How could I have forgotten? Why on earth did I do this again?
So this little perhaps five pound puppy has decided that she is to be the center of our life. Our previous dogs have always been Australian Shepherds. They are raised to be basically one person dogs with an outside jobs(herding sheep)to keep them occupied. Not big on cuddling, rather aloof with new people, and pretty content to be alone for a while chewing on something(preferably something disposable!)
Zoe, on the contrary, is a very social dog. She loves everyone she meets. But she regards every person as one more opportunity to get petted, rubbed and spoken to. She loves cuddling even though her idea of cuddling includes much ear nipping. She hates being alone and runs after whoever makes the mistake of moving from one room to another. Needless to say the song “Me and My Shadow” constantly runs through our minds as she pursues us around the house.
She has gradually accepted that the crate is a safe place to spend the night and sleeps about four to five hours at a stretch. Otherwise, however, she balks at going there if it is light out. She is too little to be in the back yard by herself since we are frequented by fox, raccoons and a large hawk in a nearby tree.
Despite nicknaming her the “great disrupter,” she is a joy and I can no longer imagine life without her. But as we each get used to life with the other we are coming to know a very different kind of dog. It’s requiring some major adjustments!
Hi Elizabeth, you are quite right about people forgetting how much work babies are. I think we are wired that way so we keep having more children 😊. Zoe sounds lovely and she will grow.
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I know no one who would have a second child if they really remembered the first labor and the infant care. You are right that we are designed to forget and we almost all do. (I did have one neighbor who said she would never go through that again, but she was an exception.)
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She is cute enough to melt your heart. You will eventually come to cherish those cuddles, I am sure.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I love the cuddles. The “love bites” not so much!
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I had intended never to have another puppy…
But losing our last dog in lockdown limited our choices from rehoming kennels. Also, whenever we mentioned grandchildren, our interviewer would suck in their teeth.
I have to admit though, that our rehomed dogs in the past were always (well… almost always) better behaved than the ones I brought up from puppies.
Or maybe I’ve got a better idea what I’m doing than I did back then. As far as I’m concerned, they’re still puppies until they pass their third birthday, so the jury’s still out on this one.
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You can’t have rehomed dogs with grandchildren? Here I heard from a woman who was told she was too old to adopt a rescue.(And she was in her 60’s.) Who makes up these rules anyway?
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quite! At the Dogs Trust we didn’t even get to see a dog.
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Good grief. That is age discrimination at its worst.
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She is a real cutie!
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And she certainly knows it!
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Aw what a sweet, innocent disrupter!
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She would like you to think so!
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I’ve got my own disrupter in a cute little cat named Benji!
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And you could write a book called “Where’s Benji?” showing him in all his crazy places.
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I’ve thought of putting together some Benji stories. We’ll see! 😻
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I think it would be very popular combined with your precious photos.
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That’s very encouraging. Thanks so much for your comment. 🙂 🙂
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After my precious lab died at 14, I vowed never to get another pet so that I would never experience that kind of pain again. Cut to a year later, and I fell in love with a Corgi puppy. He was so super sweet and gentle, that after another year, I decided to get a second one. Now this second Corgi puppy (who I adore) is a holy terror. Where Loki is gentle and calm, Odin has one speed and it is chaos! But, once again, my heart is full even with my own little great disrupter.
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Great to hear from you. Are you still posting? If so I will follow again.
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Hi Elizabeth. It is so good to hear from you. Yes, I took a very long hiatus and I am back posting weekly.
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Now that is one mischief maker looking you straight in the eye.
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You saw the truth in that face!
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She looks very cute!
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She is so cute that she can manipulate us very easily.
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Indeed!
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The joys of a new puppy!!
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For sure.
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The name “The Great Disrupter” reminded me of a great hit song from the doo-wop era called “The Great Pretender.” It has nothing to do with this post, but like your dog, it’s a joy to remember if you’re old enough to have been around at the time.
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You know I am pretty sure that I had this song in mind when I came up with that title. Just not conscious of it. Thanks.
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The great disruptor has disrupted your life in a good way. Our dog is nine and still follows my wife around.
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That is good to know. We have not had a dog like that before.
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You do it because you remember the rewards
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And even the constant demand for attention shows that we matter to her!
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Yes
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Such a lovely addition to your family. How boring would life be without a little shakeup every now and then? I know you will all blend ever so nicely.
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Good point. We were getting a little bored around here anyway.
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I bet it is not boring now. 🐶
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LOL
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My goodness, this is parenthood when #2 (or 3 or 4) are far different than #1. Adjustment is not always easy, but love finds a way. Zoe sounds like a dreamboat.
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You get it precisely. She is a wonderful disruption.
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Yes, and yes! I can feel your happiness through your writing.
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So cute Elizabeth!
Blessings, Jennifer
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Her cuteness definitely compensates for her disruptions.
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She is just adorable, Elizabeth.
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We agree.
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